Live NOW ~ A Science of Being Magazine

Simple Steps to Help You Find a Life Partner

Loneliness is a terrible emotion to live with. There are an awful lot of lonely people out there in the world who have lost hope of ever finding a partner in life. I say don't give up! Finding a life partner can happen when you never give up inside your Heart, Mind and Soul.

Take Heart

Let your natural Loving emotions draw Love to you. Love your self and others. Do your best to feel true Joy when friends tell you about their happiness in a Loving relationship, and keep hope that this can also be true for you one day. Truly feeling happiness for others also draws happiness to you because of the Law of Attraction, and the emotions of hope, happiness and Love are in harmony with each other.

Make Mental Adjustments

Be motivated by Love rather than fear. Relax and release negative thoughts concerning the situation. When ever you have doubts of finding a Loving partner strike that out immediately in the mind. As an old friend always said to me in such a situation, “Are you going to let that fear or regret rent space in your head?” Think instead, “NO I am not! What good does it do? None!” Doubt is just a shadow of the subconsciousness and has no real value in your thinking and mental attitude as you work towards your happiness.

Learning from past mistakes is a positive. Carefully examine yourself to see where you can improve yourself to avoid repeating the same mistakes, and do your best to never become bitter if a relationship does fall apart. Harboring bad feelings just creates an aura of negative around you and this does not attract love to you.

DON’T WAIT

If you are lonely and need things to change don't wait until something makes you change because of tragic happenings. Change because this is what you want. Don't let yourself get fixed in old ways of thinking! Get up and move! So when this wonderful thing called a relationship does happen to you, you will be ready to embrace it with all your might and Soul. Things can happen you never knew were possible. Be sure you want it with all your Heart and work at it with everything you can muster, because Life here on earth is very short. Cherish the time! Life can be such an adventure; it’s amazing!! Don’t sit in the back seat and let someone else drive your car! Take that wheel of Life and steer it the way you want it to be – Straight, True and full of Joy that comes from a person in charge!

By MRLB and PSLB

Don't Give Up!

Listen to Your Higher Guidance

All relationships are a work in progress. The greatest point here is this:  you have to know yourself, know your “good and bad” so to speak; be Truthful and Love regardless of any faults. This will help you thoroughly examine the positive and negative characteristics of a potential partner and Love them regardless of any faults, however, if there are any uncompromising problems that are a harm to anyone then an appropriate action should be considered. In the past you may have been attracted to someone based on their looks, or not attracted to them if there wasn’t any animal magnetism. True, loving attraction happens because of who you both are and your ability to see Goodness in each other and Love regardless of faults! This may mean continually working on letting go of preconceived notions of how you think things should be. There is no room for a closed book of fixed subconscious ideas like “my way or the highway!” Someone else may not necessarily be or do things the way you like, so be free and let them be and do things the way they see it, if there is no harm in it.